Sports fans know a lot about winning and losing. So do sports participants, who perhaps experience a different level of intensity when winning or losing than do those who simply watch from the sidelines.
Note the word perhaps, which was intentionally chosen. Need I say more?
In the collegiate realm, football fans have already seen all the winners and losers they’re going to see, at least for this season. The College Football Playoff national championship has been decided.
The Texas Christian University (TCU) Horned Frogs had a sensational season, nearly going undefeated before pretty much melting in the final game against the Georgia Bulldogs. The final score of 65-7 was nowhere near what some of us expected. At least the Frogs made it to the dance.
Many of us Texans whose teams flamed out early (Aggies, Longhorns, Red Raiders, Mustangs, Cougars, Bobcats, et al.) were pulling for the only Texas team that actually got to the finals. Alas. The Horned Frogs were simply outplayed, outmanned, outcoached, and unprepared.
This month’s focus is on the National Football League. Already 24 teams have been eliminated, including many of my favorites. Of said favorites, only the Dallas Cowboys are still in the hunt, at least for now.
Of the eight remaining teams, only two will make it to the 57th Super Bowl (Super Bowl LVII). That contest will be on February 12, 2023, at 5:30 pm CST at State Farm Stadium in Glendale, Ariz.
The NFL team that wins Super Bowl LVII will soon be forgotten by many. In the overall picture of life and death, a football game pales into relative insignificance. Two years from now, will it really matter?
The phenomenon of winning and losing is not restricted to football fields or basketball gymnasiums or baseball diamonds or volleyball courts or Olympic swimming pools. People win and lose in life every day.
In my numerous decades on Planet Earth, I’ve celebrated wins and suffered losses. By the grace of God, more of the former than of the latter. What I’ve discovered is that people who almost always win and almost never lose are rare as hen’s teeth. And sometimes hard to get along with.
What I’ve also discovered is that losing does not bring the end of the world. After any defeat, the sun will come up in the morning. Birds will chirp. Bees will buzz. Babies will be born. Life for some will end.
Another truism, in a form of articulation that I’ve never heard from anyone but me, goes like this: A person’s education is not complete until he learns how to lose.
In the game of life, there will always be winners and losers. While winning is more fun than losing, I believe it’s important for winners to understand what it feels like to be a loser.
Though we might find faults with athletic competition, at any level, I watch with interest the interaction among opponents after a game is over. Winners are ecstatic! Losers are disappointed or deflated.
Yet shaking hands with each other or high-fiving or fist-bumping is at least an expression of awareness that though half of us are winners today, we could very likely be losers tomorrow.
The Bible is anything but silent on winning and losing. Here are only a few examples:
- In a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize. 1 Cor. 9:24
- The last will be first, and the first will be last. Matt. 20:16
- Thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. 1 Cor. 15:57
Ultimately, our final breath is the only time winning or losing is truly important. Only by God’s grace are we winners when it really counts.